Jerry Vinett: A Life Of Grit, Devotion, And Community

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The Forest Hills community and the extended Yeshiva Tiferet Moshe family mourn the loss of Jerry Vinett, who passed away on April 19, 2026, at the age of 86. A man defined by stoicism and deep-seated kindness, Jerry left an indelible mark on everyone from the corporate boardrooms of Manhattan to the gym floors of Queens.

Born on June 13, 1939, he grew up in the vibrant atmosphere of the Lower East Side. His youth was a quintessential New York story, filled with neighborhood games like stickball, stoopball, and “Ring a Levio.” He found a second home at the Henry Street Settlement House and its upstate camp, experiences that fostered a lifelong passion for sports and mentorship.

Jerry’s work ethic was evident early on, from his time at the legendary Grossinger’s Resort to his service in the United States Army. While stationed in Indiana, he rose to a supervisory role and used his time in the service to further his education at Indiana University. Upon returning to New York, he lived in Ravenswood, and his athletic ability nearly carried him to the big leagues when he tried out for the New York Mets.

While his professional path led him to real estate—where he held significant roles, including with the Loews Corporation—his heart remained in the game. A devoted New York Giants season ticket holder for over 50 years, Jerry was in the stands to witness their victory at Super Bowl XXI. Outside the stadium, he appreciated life’s simple comforts: classic Jewish food, especially a good corned beef sandwich, along with a plate of spaghetti and meatballs.

On May 24, 1970, Jerry married his beloved wife, Iris. Together in Forest Hills, they raised their son, Scott, who was the pride of his life. Jerry was a devoted son, nephew, and uncle who prioritized family above all, ensuring his aging relatives were always honored with dignity.

Following Iris’s passing 13 years ago, Jerry drew profound strength from reconnecting with his heritage. Although Ashkenazic, he deeply embraced the Sephardic community, becoming a fixture at the Young Israel of Forest Hills Sephardic minyan—Tiffereth Shalom, held in the ballroom—and regularly attending shiurim and programming at the Beth Gavriel Community Center. He was eager to grow, eventually embracing an Orthodox life and committing himself to daily tefillah.

This spiritual journey found expression in his role as a physical education teacher at Yeshiva Tiferet Moshe (YTM). Jerry was far more than a coach—he was a builder of character. He took particular pride in helping less athletically inclined students find confidence, often working with them privately so they could succeed. He instilled a sense of self-worth in generations of boys who continued to greet him warmly years later.

Jerry’s presence was deeply felt in the homes of his friends. Avraham Kariyev remained a true friend throughout his life, and Jerry was a regular Shabbat guest at the home of Debbie and Yaakov Kaykov for several years prior to the pandemic. “He would walk over in all weather and shower our kids with attention,” Debbie recalled. “He would call to check in on us and praised the cooking in a way that made me feel like the world’s best cook. He was wonderful company and is truly missed.” Devorah Linda likewise remained a devoted friend, part of a close circle that cherished his determination and warmth.

In his later years, Jerry faced health challenges with trademark grit and a quiet sense of humor that inspired those around him. He remained stoic and never complained, choosing instead to bring joy to those he encountered. The birth of his granddaughter, Valentina, in 2014 filled him with immense happiness; she was the light of his life.

After a long and admirable fight, the levayah took place on Monday, April 20, at Mount Hebron Cemetery. The graveside service brought together rabbanim, friends, and former students, all sharing memories of a man who lived with quiet strength and genuine warmth. Jerry was laid to rest alongside his beloved Iris, with his parents buried nearby—a final reflection of the family devotion that defined his life.

The family extends heartfelt gratitude to David Shakhmoroff for organizing the T'hillim group during Jerry’s final days, ensuring the community could come together to give him the kavod achron he so deserved. Special thanks are also due to his son, Scott Vinett, for providing the information to properly honor his father's legacy.

Jerry Vinett will be remembered for his unwavering loyalty to his family, his deep connection to every corner of the community, and a soul that grew more radiant with each passing year.