Parshat Devarim: From Custodian To Rabbi

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In Parshat Devarim Hashem compares the Jewish nation to heavens’ stars. My father, Rav Yitzchok Fingerer shlit”a, interestingly quotes Rav Chaim of Sanz who was known to impart that if one peers at the stars that dot the sky, they appear miniscule from afar because they are not found in our solar system. Rather, stars are huge; they are colossal and gigantic. The Sanzer, in his infinite wisdom proclaims that this notion is precisely a Jewish soul, and therefore we can justly be compared to the stars. A Jew often gives off a subtle, insignificant impression. Some may describe a Jewish person as one who is empty. In truth, a Jewish person maintains a massive amount of greatness!

As we approach Tishah B’Av, this message is worthy to take to heart. Realize the uniqueness of every Jew! Never think of a fellow Jew as small-scale. An unaffiliated Jew simply requires the right person at the right time to kindle their neshamah, spark their soul. Understand that a Jew is vast; we are each our own constellation and galaxy. All one must do is take a closer look and not forget that in both Hashem’s and our eyes every single Jew is mammoth, despite a timid appearance.

A non-observant, Jewish man with earrings, a ponytail, and ripped jeans once came to Rav Shlomo Freifeld zt"l, the revered Rosh HaYeshivah at Sh'or Yoshuv, applying to be the facility’s janitor. Yet, when the gentleman arrived, Rav Shlomo informed the applicant that the position was already filled. However, Rav Shlomo was prepared for the encounter and proceeded to inquire if the young man had ever studied the chapter of Hakonet in Mesechtat Bava Kama. Like many of us, the man retorted that he had studied the portion years back while a talmid in yeshivah, but only had passing memories of its concepts. Bewilderingly, Rav Shlomo announced, “I would like to hire you to be a rebbi here at the yeshivah.” Puzzled, the man stammered, “What? The rav expects me to be a rebbi?” and then observing himself continued, “Hasn’t the rav looked at me! How can I be the spiritual instructor for others?” Pointedly, Rav Shlomo informed the new hire of two boys who grappled with a tough ordeal, and required a relatable mentor, a rebbi who understands their experiences.

Shocked, the gentleman briefly pondered the offer and soon gave the rav his acceptance to study with the two youngsters in the role of their rebbi. Later that night, the newly appointed educator realized wearing a yarmulke and tzitzit was vital for someone in his position. So, for the first time what felt like forever, the former custodian purchased the sacred religious items and proudly donned each. As the evening approached, the rebbi prepped the material for the following day while sitting with a Gemara in hand. The man had successfully started learning once again all thanks to Rav Shlomo.

As expected, the man and his protégés smoothly connected, and together they grew leaps and bounds. This man ended up being an incredible rebbi to the kids, and many others who followed afterwards, infusing each talmid with the beauty and vitality of Yiddishkeit! What greatness! The power of every yid is endless! Next time, when looking at someone who gives a sheepish impression, take a moment to look into their future and grasp just how big they are. Having a ponytail or ripped jeans does not matter if they are not wearing a yarmulke or tzitzit. Look at them and comprehend their greatness. A person just needs the right boost to lift them up and give them renewed confidence. Let’s try to help others reach their full potential and be shining stars!

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